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Creating What We Want In Our Life

Each of us has what I call cross-purposes. Usually when we are seemingly unable to create what we want to create, we have more than one conflicting beliefs and this causes us to analyze things too much. We end up confusing the energy behind our intention. We also may have some fears about making a decision. Perhaps we are afraid we will make the wrong one. Sometimes to get over this fear we need to just do it… make a decision and go for it.

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Most of the decisions we make are not set in stone… after a fair amount of time we can change our mind and make a different decision if we see that our original decision isn’t creating what we wanted.

After we make a decision to accomplish something, we either get the results we wanted or we get a bunch “why not” reasons. Our reasons of “why not” is really a tricky way of denial that we apply to our life everyday. These reasons give us rationalized excuses and alibis, in which we tell ourselves stories about why we didn’t get what we wanted. Our reasons of why not never give us the results we originally wanted and the tricky part comes in because in our mind we think our reasons of why not are almost as good as what we wanted to accomplish in the first place.

We all have many standard reasons of why not that we use all the time… some of these are… I’m too busy… I don’t have time… It doesn’t really matter… I’m not good enough… I might make the wrong choice… I don’t have enough support… money… talent… etc., etc., etc. All these things and more are what we tell ourselves over and over until we believe they are true. All of our reasons why not is what prevents us from accomplishing the things we want to accomplish.

Everyone does this everyday. However, once we recognize what we do, then we give ourselves the power to accomplish more of what we want.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



 


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