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Most of the
decisions we make are not set in stone… after a fair amount of
time we can change our mind and make a different decision if we
see that our original decision isn’t creating what we wanted.
After we make a
decision to accomplish something, we either get the results we
wanted or we get a bunch “why not” reasons. Our reasons of
“why not” is really a tricky way of denial that we apply to
our life everyday. These reasons give us rationalized excuses
and alibis, in which we tell ourselves stories about why we
didn’t get what we wanted. Our reasons of why not never give
us the results we originally wanted and the tricky part comes in
because in our mind we think our reasons of why not are almost
as good as what we wanted to accomplish in the first place.
We all have many standard reasons of why
not that we use all the time… some of these are… I’m too
busy… I don’t have time… It doesn’t really matter…
I’m not good enough… I might make the wrong choice… I
don’t have enough support… money… talent… etc., etc.,
etc. All these things and more are what we tell ourselves over
and over until we believe they are true. All of our reasons why
not is what prevents us from accomplishing the things we want to
accomplish.
Everyone does this everyday. However, once we recognize what we
do, then we give ourselves the power to accomplish more of what
we want.
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